7 Reasons Why He Stopped Calling :
1. He wanted just “one thing”
I think women become more emotionally attached to a man when things start to get a little more physical.
Men on the other hand, can leave those feelings at the door ! YES ! …
If you let things to get physical before being committed, or having a real relationship, you may run the risk of just being used, let’s be clear, some men just want that, and once they get it … their interest it’s out the door !!!
Be SMARTER than them!!! Do not let yourself be used !
When he does eventually re appear and calls you back, consider it a round two of the same scenario.
2. He’s seeing someone else
If the two of you were not exclusive when he stopped calling, he may have met someone else and is now seeing her.
I know this hurts, but your only job is to move on
BUT , If you are in a committed relationship, he may be cheating… A man who would betray you in that way is not worth one more moment of your time !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
3. He’s having second thoughts
If he already expressed his mutual interest in you over a few dates, then one day he realized that he may not be that interested in you after all… (yes, this happens ) this may be a valid thought.
But any man with a sense of responsibility and integrity WILL pick up the phone to let you know what’s on his mind.
If he doesn’t, he lacks maturity and doesn’t care enough about your feelings.
4. He’s extremely busy with work or family issues
This may be the reason he hasn’t called lately …….. BUT if he continues to do this, take it for exactly what it is: An excuse. He is not trying to hold on to you.
You MUST find a man who will stop at nothing to make sure you don’t give up on him and move on, while he’s dealing with his extremely packed agenda !!!
5. He hates talking on the phone
LADIES!! This is no excuse !!! It’s an obvious way of saying he just doesn’t care enough to call.
He can text, send an e-mail, inbox …the options are endless in this day and age.
No matter how much he hates talking on the phone, if it means getting to see you, he’ll jump on the phone and dial if he cares.
6. He’s “letting you down easy”
Ladies!!! If he starts to disappear, and you hear from him every other day to every other week … this is letting you die a slow, painful, agonizing relationship death.
If he’s not on the phone making it quick and painless, he is doing nothing but being a JERK ! And doesn’t deserve you worrying over him !
7. He’s Selfish
If he, all of a sudden, turned out to be a real jerk, then he wasn’t the nice guy he claimed to be or you thought he was.
He either got what he wanted (sex) or was tired of waiting around to get some. So he starts to look elsewhere, for a (dumb) girl to suit his needs.
Please! Consider yourself lucky, he is out of your life !
Here is some of my advice to overcome this situation :
I don’t believe that you should sit around and try to analyze what went wrong, or what you may have said that pushed him away, or even make excuses for him (like: he has no battery on his phone or he’s so busy at work lately or he was on a horrible car accident, and call 911 !!!!!) if he ain’t calling, he ain’t interested.
Judge men’s feelings by their actions !
You SHOULD give him some breathing room, DON’T call or text him constantly. Your actions will affect the relationship even now, when his interest seems to be flaking. You CANNOT force a relationship by calling him.
Don’t waste your time on a guy who didn’t have the character or courage to tell you he just didn’t think it would work out, for whatever reason…
Move on, get out there and enjoy your life and independence. When you finally find that man who is responsible, kind, and committed to you and your happiness, you will be so glad you didn’t waste another minute with these Phone-O-Phobic men.